OurFamilyWizard’s exclusive tool, ToneMeter, helps co-parents communicate with less conflict and more civility.
Tonemeter
Communicate calmly—without stirring up conflict
OurFamilyWizard’s exclusive tool, ToneMeter™, helps you communicate with your co-parent in a civil and productive way.
What can you do with ToneMeter?
Communication sets the tone for your co-parenting relationship. ToneMeter helps you shape a positive tone instead of sounding confrontational.
When one co-parent speaks rudely, the other parent often responds in the same way or even escalates the situation. Quickly, a small question or tidbit of information gets blown out of proportion and turns into an argument. With ToneMeter’s help, you can completely avoid that original trigger.
Keep the attention on taking care of the children, not how you feel about each other.
Co-parenting is so important and so personal—emotions are inevitably going to run high at some point (nobody’s perfect). ToneMeter helps you recognise when those feelings are clouding your words, and it gives you a chance to rewrite (always optional).
ToneMeter is one way to take care of yourself during a difficult time.
Over time, you’ll get used to communicating with your co-parent civilly and productively. Slowly, this new way of writing might become a habit. It will feel comfortable, and you’ll barely need ToneMeter’s guidance.
When you establish new patterns for yourself, you can escape the negativity—and maybe set the tone for your co-parent’s communication, too.
Focus on ideas and information (not emotions)
ToneMeter is like an emotional spellcheck. It catches language that is:
- Upsetting
- Aggressive
- Humiliating
- Hurtful
Co-parenting is so important and so personal—emotions are inevitably going to run high at some point (nobody’s perfect). ToneMeter helps you recognise when those feelings are clouding your words, and it gives you a chance to rewrite (always optional).
Learn more about ToneMeter
Language in context
ToneMeter doesn’t just flag swear words—it analyses your language in context to understand what impression it will make.
Private feedback
There’s no option to create a ToneMeter report, and none of the ToneMeter feedback is recorded. It’s just a tool for self-reflection. It’s completely up to you what you do with this feedback.
Always included
ToneMeter is included in all subscriptions, and you can use it in multiple tools and features across the app.
A trademarked tool
OurFamilyWizard is the only co-parenting platform that has such an advanced tool for self-reflection. ToneMeter can change the co-parenting experience from the ground up by transforming how you communicate.
Frequently asked questions
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Document everything, easily
- Permanently document every message
- Record all messages in one place
- Create custom PDF reports quickly
- Save time, stress, and legal fees
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